My Personal Journey

I say all the time that forgiveness is a choice and then the journey begins - and it has been a journey.  From 1997 to 2012, I was a bitter, angry, resentful and miserable person. It wasn't until my father died that I really woke up and started to want a change in my life.  Although my dad had many faults, he was my hero and lead a very impactful life and had a great positive influence on others. When I returned home from his funeral in 2012, I felt that it was high time that I start to do something impactful and meaningful with my life.

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I was coached through a program called Identity and Destiny and it literally changed my life.  Through that experience, I encountered God in a very powerful way. Not only did I discover my identity, but my destiny was also revealed.  My identity is that I am a minister of reconciliation called to the masses and my destiny is to P.R.E.S.S. (stands for perseverance, resiliency, endurance, submission and supplication) while I teach and encourage others to do the same.  

Over the next eight years, I was in the trenches of the journey.  I participated in various temporary fixes (I mentioned above), developed a forgiveness program, spoke on the topic, taught forgiveness workshops and worked my program myself 3 times!

And, the same goes for me, they were temporary fixes because I never worked my own program to the point where I no longer had any negative thoughts, feelings or actions toward the person that hurt me.

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Transparent Moment

The reason I was unable to get resolved is that I never completed my own program to the end.  🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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However, when my divorce was final in March 2019, my spiritual mother passed away in May 2019 and my own dear mother died in June of 2019, it was finally time.  In fact, overdue! 

Through my grieving and healing process, God solidified my purpose to the point that I could no longer fear it or deny it.  I was finally freed to love Him, myself and others - completely!

What I discovered is the reason I was unable to finish my own process before, is because that was not the program that God wanted me to use.  There were some key things left out. So I took everything I learned through that 7-year journey of walking in the dark with my eyes open, and developed a new program of which I did finish and now I'm a living witness that it works.

And I am SO READY to share what I’ve learned with you so you can get your entire life and experience the vitality and freedom you have been desiring.  I discovered that the way to get totally free is to have 3 tools in place:

  • Process
  • Accountability
  • Community

In order to be free to love, you need to form a PAC!

Let me break that down.  Its Process.  Accountability.  Community.

1. PROCESS

Everyone tells you in Church and you know deep inside that you need to forgive, the problem is no one tells you how.  This is why a process is needed.

2. ACCOUNTABILITY

Let’s be real.  Heart work. Healing.  Wholeness. Forgiveness is hard work.  Just like an athlete needs a coach to be great, you need a coach (or some type of accountability) to be great.  This is needed because there are going to be times that you need cheering on, cheering up or a swift tap on the backside to motivate you to get back in the game.  Heart work is no different. In fact, I believe it is even more important - especially for women.

3. COMMUNITY

Lastly, you need community.  Community is important because when you are trying to heal in isolation, you have a good chance of remaining stuck.  God means for us to be in community. You need a safe place to express your feelings - not consistently whine about them.  Healing can be stressful and its possible that you can feel hopeless, you need community so that you can process the new information and truths you will be encountering.  Plus, healing can be a very confusing time, you may be tempted to live in the ‘what about me’ syndrome and that is a place of victimhood - not power.

INTRODUCING...

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Here’s Exactly What You Get

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Together She Rises consists of life freeing, transformational process, accountability and community that will help you craft your best life ever.  You will have an opportunity to experience God and yourself in a fresh new way.   

You can finally, have, do and be the person you’ve known that has been buried in hurt, pain and regret.  You can emerge as that diamond and treasure that you know you are.

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You’re now at the point of decision.

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You can either continue down the path of least resistance, the path you have already been traveling, or you can choose the road less traveled.  

The path of least resistance will probably result in you getting the same outcomes you’ve always received.  But if you want something different to happen, if you want to change the direction of your relationships (with God, yourself and others) you’re going to have to do something different.  Make a new choice, and pursue your new best life.

If All Together She Rises PAC Did Was...

  • Show you how to build your new life full of peace, joy and assurance... Would it be worth it?
  • Finally get you to a point where you sleep well at night and let go of the worry... Would it be worth it?
  • Help you learn how to trust and love yourself so you are free to love others... Would it be worth it?
  • Give you the accountability, roadmap + support to consistently be moving forward in your life... Would it be worth it?

What is your freedom worth to you?

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I hope you said to yourself - PRICELESS -

Because what is more important than your life and emotional well being?

 

Now, I am able to walk in the fullness of God!  He has blessed me with a new house, invigorated my purpose, mending my relationships and opened me to love again. I now walk in truth and I can BE the royalty that is my heritage.  

If you want to chat about this amazing journey, click the button below and let's talk.

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